Most teens use some form of social media and have a profile on a social networking site. Many visit these sites every day.
There are plenty of good things about social media – but also many risks and things kids and teens should avoid. They don’t always make good choices when they post something to a site, and this can lead to problems.
So it’s important to talk with your kids about how to use social media wisely.
What’s Good About Social Media
Social media can help kids:
- stay connected with friends and family
- volunteer or get involved with a campaign, non-profit, or charity
- enhance their creativity by sharing ideas, music, and art
- meet and interact with others who share similar interests
- communicate with educators and fellow learners
What’s Bad About Social Media
The flipside is that social media can be a hub for things likeย cyberbullyingย and questionable activities. Without meaning to, kids can share more online than they should.
Most teens:
- post photos of themselves online or use their real names on their profiles
- reveal their birthdates and interests
- post their school name and the town where they live
This can make them easy targets for online predators and others who might mean them harm.
In fact, many teens say they have:
- been contacted online by someone they didn’t know in a way that made them feel scared or uncomfortable
- received online advertising that was inappropriate for their age
- lied about their age to get access to websites
Concerns and Consequences
Besides problems like cyberbullying and online predators, kids also can face the possibility of a physical encounter with the wrong person. Many apps automatically reveal the poster’s location when they’re used. This can tell anyone exactly where to find the person using the app.
And photos, videos, and comments made online usually can’t be taken back once they’re posted. Even when a teen thinks something has been deleted, it can be impossible to completely erase it from the Internet.
Posting an inappropriate photo can damage a reputation and cause problems years later – such as when a potential employer or college admissions officer does a background check. And sending a mean-spirited text, even as a joke, can be very hurtful to someone else and even taken as a threat.
Spending too much time on social media can be a downer too. Seeing how many “friends” others have and the pictures of them having fun can make kids feel bad about themselves or like they don’t measure up to their peers.
What Can Parents Do?
It’s important to be aware of what your kids do online. But snooping can alienate them and damage the trust you’ve built together. The key is to stay involved in a way that makes your kids understand that you respect their privacy but want to make sure they’re safe.
Tell your kids that it’s important to:
- Be nice.ย Mean behaviour is not OK. Make it clear that you expect your kids to treat others with respect, and to never post hurtful or embarrassing messages. And ask them to always tell you about any harassing or bullying messages that others post.
- Think twice before hitting “enter.”ย Remind teens that what they post can be used against them. For example, letting the world know that you’re off on vacation or posting your home address gives would-be robbers a chance to strike. Teens also should avoid posting specific locations of parties or events, as well as phone numbers.
- Follow the “WWGS?” (What Would Grandma Say?) rule.ย Teach kids not to share anything on social media that they wouldn’t want their teachers, college admissions officers, future bosses โ and yes, grandma โ to see.
- Use privacy settings.ย Privacy settings are important. Go through them together to make sure your kids understand each one. Also, explain that passwords are there to protect them against things like identity theft. They should never share them with anyone, even a boyfriend, girlfriend, or best friend.
- Don’t “friend” strangers.ย “If you don’t know them, don’t friend them.” This is a plain, simple โ and safe โ rule of thumb.
Make a Contract
Consider making a “social media agreement” with your kids – a real contract they can sign. In it, they agree to protect their own privacy, consider their reputation, and not give out personal information. They also promise not to use technology to hurt anyone else through bullying or gossip.
In turn, parents agree to respect teens’ privacy while making an effort to be part of the social media world. This means you can “friend” and observe them, but don’t post embarrassing comments or rants about messy rooms.
Parents also can help keep kids grounded in the real world by putting limits on media use. Keep computers in public areas in the house, avoid laptops and smartphones in bedrooms, and set some rules on the use of technology (such as no devices at the dinner table).
And don’t forget: Setting a good example through your own virtual behaviour can go a long way toward helping your kids use social media safely.
Source: โTeaching Kids to Be Smart About Social Mediaโ โ www.kidsorg.co.za
Dear parents & guardians,
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We look forward to receiving your children at the beginning of the third term of the year.
We trust that you are all remaining safe and resolute during the difficult time that we are currently experiencing.
The following procedures will be observed in the re-opening of our school for the third term:
โข Union High School will reopen on 26 July 2021 for all grades utilizing the daily rotational timetable model.
โข Our Grades 5-9 learners will continue with the weekly rotation timetable model commencing on 26 July 2021. GROUP A will attend school on Monday, 26 July.
โข The Grade 5-7 learners will then return to the traditional daily attendance timetable model on 2 August 2021.
โข This means that Grades 8-9 will continue with the daily rotational timetable until further notice.
โข Grades 10-12 will attend school daily.
All COVID-19 protocols must be observed, and we appeal to parents and guardians not to send learners to school who may be exhibiting symptoms, or who are direct contacts of people who are symptomatic or ill.
Yours faithfully,
MR. W.E. PRINGLE
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It is with profound distress and sorrow, that the Union Schools extends its condolences to the family and friends of the late Karin Marais.
Dear Parents/Guardians,
We have survived another school term, one that was certainly challenging and demanding on our learners and staff.
We thank you for your continued support during these very difficult times and trust that you will all stay safe over the school holiday.
STAFF MATTERS
We say farewell to Mr Erwin Ittershagen-Strauss and Ms Hanel Weidemann at the end of this term and wish them well in their new posts in Port Elizabeth and Uitenhage, respectively.
IMPORTANT DATES FOR TERM 3
- Monday, 19 July School re-opens: 08:00 โ 13:45 daily.
- All Grade 10 to 12 learners attend school every day.
- Grade 5 to 9 Group A โ Day 1.
- Tuesday, 20 July Grade 5 to 9 Group B โ Day 1.
- Monday, 26 July All Grade 5 to 7 learners attend school every day.
- Grade 8 and 9 continue attending school on alternate days.
- Monday, 13 September Grade 5 to 12 Formal Tests/Assessments start.
- Friday, 1 October End of Term 3.
CLOTHING SHOP
The School Clothing Shop, which is housed at the high school for parentsโ and learnersโ convenience, will operate from Monday to Friday from 08.00 to 13.00 when school reopens on Monday, 19 July.
May you enjoy a restful holiday with your children.
Yours faithfully
MR W.E. PRINGLE
HEADMASTER | Union High School